It is easy to blame others for our mistakes. Out of fear, shame, anger, or instinct our first response when something horrible happens is to say, "It wasn't me!" We are only human, after all.
But I strive to be that person who can say, "It was me. That was my choice." And I want to be brave enough to be okay with it, because after all, it was my choice.
Make Good Choices! LOL!